A Month After that Blissful Day

Being married is fun and exciting but I tell you it's not all a bed of roses. A month after that blissful day, here am I, in tears and lonely. My husband and I are still in the adjustment period. I used to think that everything will just happen in one day. Now, what do I mean by that "everything"?

Well, I thought that within a month, I'd know him more and be known more by him. I thought that everyday would just be a day of sweetness and nothing else. But reality strikes me, it's not always like that... it's more than that.

My husband tells me that it might take us sometime before we would be used to living together, before we could honestly take our differences with surrender. What is important is that we're willing to undergo this process and that we have the Lord as the center and foundation of our marriage.

So, what would I say after a month of that blissful day? Do I have any regrets? Do I still have that confidence in my heart to say that, "he is the one"?

Well, a month after that blissful day, I still feel the same way for my husband. I don't have any regrets and my heart is still confident to say, "he really is the one"!

A month may be too young but I'm willing to spend my life with Wilbert, my husband, another month and even more months and years until that day when we will realize that we are already old and yet the love we have for each other is just like the love that we have for the first time.

Happy monthsary mahal ko! I love you muchi! :-)

June 16, 2007

From Miss Joy L. Barachina to Mrs. Joy B. Lojo! This is the day that we have been waiting for... A day of finally becoming one! The Lord is good!